Deborah Dashow Ruth
Interview
On July 2, the Virago Theatre Company staged a
rehearsed reading of Deborah Dashow Ruth’s play A Routine Procedure, at the Flight Deck in Oakland. Ruth’s play presents conflicts and tensions
that follow an unsuccessful surgical operation, normally a “routine procedure,”
that result in the patient—a woman who more than anything else wants to have
children of her own—losing her ability to have children. The female surgeon who performed the
operation, troubled by her own traumatizing experience regarding a pregnancy, has
to face disturbing questions when confronted later by her patient.
After
the performance of Ruth’s play, the audience discussed at length the issues of
gender roles, expectations, and entitlements, and the extent to which these
have changed in the last generation.
On July 11, I met with the playwright to discuss
her background and interests as a writer.
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dc: How did you get
into playwriting?
Ruth: For years
and years, I wanted to write plays, but learning out of a book didn't appeal to
me, and the only courses I could find were for screenplay writing. Meanwhile, I
was doing other writing, first short stories, then novels—I have two
unpublished novels in the proverbial drawer—and then poetry. About 30 of my poems have been published.
Actually,
ever since I was a kid, I wanted to be a writer. I read constantly, although I
don't remember learning to read. As I told another interviewer, I feel like I was
born reading. One experience that deeply affected me was when I read first read
Jane Eyre. I was maybe 14. There’s that part at the end, where Jane, the
narrator, referring to Mr. Rochester, says, “Reader, I married him,” and I
looked around wondering, who’s she talking to? It was an incredible moment –
that a character in the novel could address the reader! Sounds crazy but it
really affected me. And somehow even increased my desire to be a writer.
Writing
fiction was getting to be a burden, so I returned to poetry, which I'd quit
years before. I got accepted into the Squaw Valley Community of Writers Poetry
Workshop, where, for a week, you have to write a new poem every day. The staff
– which included some illustrious, prize-winning poets – have to do the same. I
pulled a bunch of anxious all-nighters, and when my seventh (last) poem found
approval from Galway Kinnell, it was a transforming moment. I really felt I
wasn’t the same person when I got home. The following summer, as we were
introducing ourselves, I told the group, “You know how the human body
essentially replaces all its cells in seven years? Well, last year it happened
to me in just seven days.” Then I began sending poems to little magazines and
journals. Many of my submissions were accepted. I even had two poems nominated
for Pushcart Prizes, which means that the editors of those journals thought
they were good enough to nominate.
But
in the back of my mind I wanted to be working on stage plays. Most of the
courses available were for writing screenplays, which didn't interest me at
all. Finally, I found a one-day workshop in the City just for stage plays,
where we actually did some writing. Just before our lunch break, we were
instructed to “go out and do some shameless eavesdropping.” So we all wrote
down what we heard people saying, then came back to put it together, and we had
little instant play readings. It was awesome hearing other people read the
dialogue I wrote. Then I heard about Will Dunne’s workshops, and after two of
them, I was hooked. The fact that his course meets one weekend every month
meant that I had to have something for the actors he invited in to read—I work
much better with a deadline anyway.
I
also took an online course from Carol Wolf, a terrific teacher and prolific
writer of novels, non- fiction, screen plays, and plays. She wrote The Thousandth Night, which
was produced at the Aurora Theatre where I met her and ended up taking the
online playwriting course she taught at Foothill College. What I learned to do
immediately was write ten-minute plays, which I was surprised to find I really
liked doing.
The
reason I like play writing, which I now regard as my métier, is that like in
fiction, it has a narrative, a story, with a beginning, middle, and end, and
like in poetry, you have to be careful in selecting each word, or at least each
statement. So it combines both types of the writing I'd been doing. The fact
that I had always been complimented on my natural-sounding dialogue was also a
plus.
As for re-wtiting, I actually like doing it. Someone once
said, “Stories are not written, they’re rewritten.” No matter how good you
think your first draft is, it's still only a first draft. In my opinion,
anybody who thinks they can “get it right the first time” has little chance of
getting published.
dc: What do you read?
Ruth: My late husband was a lifelong mystery fan, and
I caught the bug from him. Before his death two years ago, we read mysteries
together, and I became a big fan, especially of English mysteries.
We would both just eat them up. However, I
mostly read mainstream fiction. My book group that has been going on for at
least twelve years, meeting every three months, gets me reading books that I
would not normally have selected. Nowadays I’m reading a lot of contemporary
plays, especially those written by women.
dc: What writers, or
artists of any medium, do you feel have influenced you, thematically, or in
terms of style, or perspective?
Ruth: For fiction, Laurie King's mystery series about
Sherlock Holmes and Mary Russell features complex plots and excellent writing.
Also, her novel Folly, about a single woman living alone on an island,
was fabulous. I also like Julia Spencer Fleming’s series about an unmarried
female minister in a New England town and a married chief of police. As the
series progresses, so does the relationship between these two characters as
well as the relationship between the new minister and the small town. Except
for the fact that the plots involve murder and other nasty deeds, these books
read like well-written mainstream novels. They don't really influence me as a
writer, though, but it's inspiring – and encouraging – to read books with good
writing, good plotting, and good character development.
For
plays, I'm a great admirer of Tom Stoppard. When Arcadia appeared at
ACT, a friend urged us to read it first. Good advice, because a lot of the
funny bits are cleverly intellectually funny, and since my husband and I had
read the play, we were often the only ones laughing. Stoppard's frequent
play-making technique is to take two events—sometimes newspaper items—that are
totally unrelated, hoick them together, and that becomes his play. Very
impressive, though so far I haven't been able to do it myself. But as far as
inspiration goes, I think somewhere down deep I'd really like to be able to
write like Stoppard.
dc: When you think
that someone’s work is affecting you as a writer, do you see it as shaping
anything specific about your writing, or is the effect something more general?
Ruth: It’s more inspiration. I haven’t found myself
thinking, “I ought to try this voice.” I probably should, at some point, try
modeling. I’ve done some modeling with poetry but I haven’t done it with a
play. So it’s mostly both inspiration and admiration.
dc: What are themes,
situations, or issues that you are interested in exploring or exposing in your
work?
Ruth: I don’t start out with a theme in mind. Usually
it's a situation or a relationship that I want to explore. Actually, I'm
interested in long held secrets in families. Many of the blurbs I read about
plays nowadays have to do with revealing a long lost relative, or document, or
hidden relationship, but this theme has a special interest for me because about
ten or so years ago that I learned certain things about my own family that I
was totally unaware of. I had always assumed that my family was “normal” – whatever
that means – but via rather casual remarks from my two brothers, I began to
understand what “dysfunctional” meant. The first play that I ever wrote was
called Sibs, about a brother and a sister who have been estranged for
years, and one of them says let’s get together and clear the air. In doing so,
each one reveals secrets from the past. This play was inspired by a situation
with my own older brother.
I
also like the theme of girls or women who are assumed to be not capable of x,
y, and z, because their fathers or mothers or textbooks say that these pursuits
or interests are inappropriate for females. I was raised in the 50s and am
especially sensitive to that. In my writing I often have to decide what era it
should take place in. With A Routine Procedure, I see that I am going to
have to do more with the language to make it contemporary. Generally, also, I
have to take away stuff that’s not the play. Wasn't it Michaelangelo who said
that in creating the statue of Moses, all he did was take away the stuff that
wasn’t Moses?
The
second ten-minute play I ever wrote was called True Colors. I did many
revisions and submitted it to many places with no luck until it won first prize
in a national competition and was performed as a reading in Washington, D.C.,
in September 2012. The play is about a lawyer, and a lawyer friend of mine who
saw the play assured me that, yep, the lawyer stuff was accurate. I need that
sort of accuracy. For example, I want to expand the operating room scenes in A
Routine Procedure, so I have contacted my gynecologist who helped me with
the original play and has agreed to help me again.
dc: What other
projects are you working on now?
Ruth: I wrote a complete play, starting early 2013,
and had a reading of it in November—the fastest I have ever written a play.
Somehow, I think my husband's death the previous year may have had something to
do with it, but I've never felt like analyzing that. The play is titled The
Fairest of Them All. The cast consists of a King; his son, the Prince; a
woman who’s the Palace Wizard; and the Wizard's sister. This was the first time
in Will’s course that I came up with something that does not take place in the
50s. After a delightful staged reading last year, I'm ready for the next
rewrite. Someone who is interested in seeing the revised version gave me the
deadline of August 15, so I have that to work toward. (Remember, I said I work
better with deadlines.) I also started something new in Will’s course last
year, called Top 40, which – lo and behold – takes place in the 60’s! I
have decided to do some mining of my history with my first husband. We lived in
Chicago for two years, then moved to Berkeley in 1964 when Mario Savio burst
upon the scene. So I set this play in 1965, and I am weaving in whatever seems
useful from my own life back then, which I hadn’t done previously. However, I
did start writing poems about my first marriage. The most ambitious was a
Chaucerian tale in rhymed couplets – the “Aromatist’s Tale.” It's somewhat
autobiographical, but I believe that poetry is fiction, so at the end, I have
the narrator say, “You know that I would never lie to you./Everything that's
not made up is true.”
dc: When artists expose themselves a lot to
another artistic medium, whether or not they are conscious of it, it’s likely
that they are influenced by that medium. I know that you are very involved in
music—you attend concerts at the Freight & Salvage here in Berkeley, you
are wearing a Jazz T-shirt, and you always have jazz playing in your home. What
is your interest in music?
Ruth: Just as I
feel I was born reading, I feel I was born with music inside me. In fact, my
most developed sense is hearing. My older brother started piano lessons when he
was nine or so. At one point, when I was about six, I sat down at the piano and
started playing his recital piece. Obviously, I was the one who should be
taking piano lessons. I studied classical, but also bought pop song sheet music
to play for fun. Then my parents sent me to the Northwestern University
Preparatory Department of Music, where I had a private lesson every week and
class lessons on theory and harmony. Meanwhile, my older brother, a jazz fan, would
buy a 45 rpm record and play it on his Victrola—remember those?—over and over and over. That rubbed off on me and
made me a jazz enthusiast. When I went to Wellesley College, I majored in English
and minored in music. My first husband, a music lover, adored Mahler and
Bruckner, and always played his records very loud – and neighbors be damned! In
the mid-60s, Bruckner was hardly ever performed, and when he found that
Bruckner’s Seventh Symphony was being performed at the newly opened Lincoln
Center, he and I and a friend left Chicago on a Friday night and drove straight
through to New York where we went to a matinee of Bruckner’s Seventh. On
Sunday, as we were driving home, the recording of that concert was aired, so we
heard the entire performance again. That was a big adventure at the time.
dc: When I first asked
you about your interest in writing, you mentioned dialogue. It’s possible this
is your hearing at work.
Ruth: Hmmm . . . I hadn’t thought of it that way. But
you’re right. I have to keep reminding myself, though, that spoken English is
much more casual than so-called “written English,” which served me well at
college when I had to write term papers!
dc: A whimsical
question: If you could instantly become
fluent in another language, what would it be, and why?
Ruth: I have an
old preference and a new one. Previously, I would have said Italian, because my
younger brother has lived in Italy since he was about 25 and is totally bi-lingual.
His wife is Italian, so of course, that's what they speak at home. The sound of
Italian is gorgeous to me, and I wanted to be fluent enough to carry on real
conversations with my brother's in-laws. But my new preference is Spanish. I've
been hearing so much of it recently, and I've come to love its sound. It's a
beautiful language. Also very practical
in twenty-first century California!
dc: So we return to your recurring motif, about
the importance of the sound of things!
Ruth: Right. The sounds. Absolutely!